Are you ready?! You are ready to be the woman you always wanted to be. And you are ready to go out and have a good time as your true self. You are finally ready to introduce your female alter ego to the world! But you still struggle to feel like a real woman as a crossdresser / transgender.
Don’t be too hard on yourself. Now you are on a journey.
You are on a journey of self-discovery, unlearning and re-learning. Everything you’ve learnt up until now has taught you to behave and live within the acceptable rules of what society expects a man to behave as. This has been engraved into your brain, which explains why you don’t look and feel like a woman.
And that’s okay.
You have to go through the process of practicing and finding how to connect with your inner feminine energy to feel comfortable and confident in who you are as a woman. You are searching for your female identity and we are here to help you.
Embedded in this article are things that you should follow and focus on to get in touch with the woman inside of you. It won’t be easy and there are no quick fixes – but there is hope.
So, let’s dive right into it and see what 3 things you can do to feel more feminine as crossdresser / transgender.
Work on your feminine mannerisms as a crossdresser / transgender
A person’s mannerisms are what can make a man seem very feminine and a woman come across as very manly. Allow us to clarify.
Have you ever done something and immediately thought to yourself that that felt feminine and stopped doing it? This could be the sound of your voice, the action of your hands while speaking, the words you use in a conversation, your posture etc. Sometimes these are subtle and sometimes they are obvious, but it will help you to pay attention to it.
To learn feminine mannerisms, crossdresser & transgender women first need to choose someone who’s behaviour you plan to duplicate. It helps to have observe one person to start with so as not to get confused with different styles.
Free your body and soul through dance
Dancing can fall into the same category as mannerisms because it is based on how you move. There are few better ways that help you feel connected with your feminine self than dancing. You need coordination and elegance to dance like a woman and that translates to you being able to be more feminine in your daily life.
Dance lessons are highly accessible in this age as you have so many free resources on YouTube and social media. Once you become comfortable watching a few videos at home, you will have the courage to learn it in a class setting with other people. This is where you will truly shine as you learn to be comfortable in your feminine alter ego in public.
Learn to cook
As much as we hate gender roles, cooking is a great way to get in touch with the woman inside you. Being a good cook requires you to be caring and nurturing, which are strong feminine traits that you might need to practice due to being a man for so long.
And going beyond nurturing, learning to cook will also help keep you healthy, slim and fit with good skin and hygiene. These are thing associated with being a woman and you need to have them in order to convincingly crossdressing.
This is a big one. Empathy is not taught to boys and men, and as a result most of do not know how to express affection towards others the right way. Women, on the other hand, have it naturally engrained in them. They are great at holding conversations, making people feel at ease and connecting with others.
This is not an easy thing to learn, and it is not going to happen overnight. However, learning to boost you level of emotional intelligence where you notice how others react to you and their surroundings will work wonders in helping you transform in a woman that everyone loves being around.
Take the time to listen to listen to others and what they have to say. Learn to relate to what they are saying and make others feel safe and comfortable around you. You should also learn to listen to your inner voice and act on those feelings. That voice might be hard to find due to the many years you’ve remained as a man but know that it is still there and finding it is very important.
Getting touch with your inner woman is not going to be easy and it’s not going to happen overnight, but it can happen. Everything mentioned in this article takes practice – changing your mannerisms, learning to dance, learning to cook, practicing empathy – however, if it’s important to you to then you will do it.
The most important thing of all is to have fun with it because if you are not having fun then it is definitely not worth your time.
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